Monday, November 17, 2014

11/17

11/17
It's been a while since I have written anything, but today, I think it may be therapeutic.  Cameron Ryder Pless passed away on Thursday.  I received a text to call Michael ASAP.  I did and was told that the baby was in an ambulance on his way to the hospital.  I called Bill and told him to be ready when I got there, I would have him ride with me.   Cameron was three months old.  Bill called and  I don't ever think I will forget the way I felt,at least I pray that I never will, when Bill said he didn't make it.  I had to pull over and get myself together and drive to the hospital.  Once we got there, it wasn't much better.  Cameron's dad was in Indianapolis working and had been notified that his son was going to the hospital, but didn't know he was gone, yet.  That is not something you tell someone over the phone, unless you have to.   Cory was working in Seymour, how was he going to be told?  Notifying people is never easy.  
I thought I had cried out all of my tears, yet when I sat down to write, they began flowing again.  Sometimes they flow and I don't even realize it.  It's like I have been cut to the core, a huge gash, where there is no mending.  No amount of thread could sew it up. Today probably won't be as bad, but dear God, be with us all tomorrow.  I am over 50 and have dealt with life and death as far back as I can remember, but I have never had to deal with the death of a child, and I hope I never will again.  I can't explain it.  It is like someone ripped out a huge piece of my heart and there is a gaping hole, a hole that will be there forever.  
In some ways, we now know that we are blessed.  Blessed to have family and friends that pull together during such horrific times. 




Wednesday, November 5, 2014

11/04/2014

Where do I start?  
I am so blessed! I have a husband who loves me, no matter what.  I believe our relationship is the strongest that it has ever been.   I have the craziest family in the world.  I am lucky, my parents are still here, they are the best!  I have children and grand children that I love unconditionally.  I have a good job, a home, food to eat and clothing to keep me warm.  I even have a dog and cats.  What more could I ask for?  I enjoy crocheting, flea markets, auctions, and so much more.  Yes, I am so blessed.  Life is good.

Friday, October 10, 2014

Dragon: Ten Tales of Fiery Beasts (ebook)

Dragon: Ten Tales of Fiery Beasts (ebook)


This is a short, easy to read ebook that I really enjoyed.  Typically dragons are not my thing, but the author is able to keep your attention, and the conclusions are totally not what you would have thought!  I give this book 4 stars! I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers. #review

Monday, September 29, 2014

Secret Shopper Opportunity

Would any of you like to become a secret shopper?  This is all over the US.  Click on the link below.  Never know unless you try.
Beth


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Monday, September 22, 2014

Monday Sept 22nd...

Today was a little stressful, well, ok, it was a lot of "stuff".  I just can't believe how much it takes to make sure people have the items they need to do their job properly.  I just can't go into it here, it is something that will need to be corrected on a different level.  
But I have a great friend, Helen.  She reminded me that no matter what, I will always come home.  And no matter what,when I get home, it no longer matters.  
I called my daughter and asked if I could take her three girls out for a milk shake after school.  I wound up taking her AND the girls to mcdonalds.  We had tea and the girls had shakes. They can make me forget everything except what we are talking about.  Brandys meds are working for her. I am so glad that she can actually concentrate on her assignments.  She was so sweet!  Ana is growing up fast.  She acts like a mother hen, but so does Brandy.  And Gracie, well Gracie is beginning to talk in full sentences.  Bless her heart.  When I would go to their house, she would scream, mommy.  I kept correcting her and saying grandma, but now I am mammy to her and that is just fine with me. 
No matter how sucky my day is, those precious children can change my attitude.  Life wouldn't be the same without them.  
Bill, Moose and Reed are camping and fishing.  It's going to get a little cold tonight, I sure hope they stay warm tonight.  They took plenty of wood, blankets, and camper.  I am sure that by now Reed is safely tucked away in the bunk with Bill.  Well, bedtime at the homestead, another day tomorrow.  
Hopefully soon I will have either a new book or item to review.
Take care,
Beth

Sunday, September 21, 2014

2014 Porter Reunion

Today was so great!   Today was the Porter Reunion.  Many family members were there and some I haven't seen in years!  I really don't have the words to express how it feels to see Great Aunts & Uncles, cousins by the dozens, and all of the children.  It was great!  Thank you to Aunt Maxine and her husband Joe for all of the years they have been putting this together.  Now, Debbie Erwin has volunteered to coordinate this.  That is a big job, but I am sure she is up to it. Great food,company and a great time had by all.  It's really a shame those that we lost last year.  I know its a part of life, but dang does it hurt.  Hopefully those that came this year will continue.  You never know when it will be the last, we all need to enjoy it.  Have a great night !

Thursday, September 18, 2014

Tonight

I wanted to write for a while tonight, but I can't.  Since I've been home tonight I have learned of the little girl in Indianapolis who was shot and died, the plane that crashed today and the two men aboard who didn't make it.  Now they are talking about the man in Florida who shot his daughter and grandchildren.  Seriously, a three month old!  And then turned the gun on himself.  That really makes me angry that he would hurt children.  I just can't.  Maybe tomorrow night and I can talk about something uplifting.
Goodnight 
Take care
Beth

Friday, September 12, 2014

Sept 12 Beth and Ivy Tech

The other night while writing, I told you we all had our own story before winding up at Ivy Tech.  I am no different.  Summer 1996, I was waiting tables over at Western Sizzling.  I was making $2.13 an hour plus tips.  I didn't really want to do that for the rest of my life.  I knew there had to be something better.


Thought a series of events I found myself at Ivy Tech taking the placement assessment.  Within a few weeks I was taking a full load (12 credit hours for the summer, are you kidding me) and still working waiting tables.  One day while talking with the financial aid director the subject of workstudy came up.  Wow, pay me to work at the college while taking classes and still wait tables, I could do that.  It paid minimum wage, but hey,it was so much easier than waiting tables.


I began working at the library.  My supervisor was Sarah.  It wasn't long until Susan became the new librarian and my life began changing yet again.  Susan taught me so much about the library and my classes seemed to be fairly easy,  I was in a good spot.  So good that I was inducted into Phi Theta Kappa, an international honor society of two year colleges.  The induction was amazing and my parents were bursting with pride before, during, and after induction.  They are still very proud of me.


While working for Susan, I also worked on the weekends waiting tables.  I did a little community service by talking to student groups at Owen Valley High School about how easy it is to get involves with drugs and things they could do to prevent getting in a situation where they could be pressured into taking them.  It must of caught someone's attention because in April 1998, I received an award from the Indiana Conference of Higher Education for outstanding dedication and commitment to community service.  I am going to take the plaque to my new office at the main building at Ivy Tech.  As a first generation, adult learner, I wasn't doing too bad.


Susan began telling me I needed to apply for jobs on campus.  Right, a college is going to hire someone without a degree, I highly doubt that.  Susan explained that even if I didn't get hired, it would give me some experience interviewing.  With nothing to lose, I began updating my resume and making it a working resume rather than chronological.  That's a whole different story that will be explained in a book by BethE that will be coming out next year.  Currently the plan is it will be titled "From Family and Friends to the Feds".  Susan helped me polish my resume and I was very careful about the positions I applied for.    Susan was right.  In January,1998, I began working as a records clerk in the Office of the Registrar.  I was in the library working and the Director of HR ay the time was J. Heizen.  He, Diana Jacobs, and Pat Stockram came to the library to offer me the position.  Of course I accepted and for about five months I kept waiting tables too.


I don't think it was very long after I was hired when Pat needed to move.  Now there was an opening for a new college Registrar.  I don't know all of the candidates, but I do know who was hired, that was Jennie Vaughan.  Jennie was my new supervisor.  My life has never been the same since.


Enough for tonight.  I'm still thinking about all of the people I know who have worked themselves to death, those that are ill, and those that are no longer with us.  Life is short, really short.  We only get one go around, we need to be the best person we can be.  I keep saying we need to educate and take care of our children because they will be the adults taking care of us and this world when we are no longer able.  Let's do it right.


More in a few days.  Take care my friends.


Thursday, September 11, 2014


 

 

Garcinia Cambogia Supreme 80% HCA Review

I thought I would be able to give a great review for this product, but alas, it was not to be.  I have followed the instructions for almost 3 weeks now and there is no difference, no weight reduction, no loss of inches, nothing.  Because I had to post my review by 09/15, I needed to get this out there.  

There is a statement on the bottle that sometimes 2 a day doesn't work and you need to use 4.  I thought I would try that for the next couple of weeks and re-review if there were a change.  

Have a great day!

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Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Sept 10

Another day.  As the day winds down, I think of the emotional roller coaster that today brought.  Life is short.  Life is to short to work yourself to death.  I don't want to work until I am 62.  I think I am eligible in August 2017.  If that's it, then I'm done then.  As I look around today, I see so many things. 
My friend had knee surgery.  Simple outpatient surgery.  A week later, she almost died.  She got a blood clot in her leg, it swelled up to about five times bigger than it should be and for the rest of her life she has to wear compression socks.  She was home, but on strict bed rest. Notice I said was. Today she woke up with her leg three time what it should be.  She went back to the hospital. No word yet, all we can do is pray for her because she is still not out of the woods.  She spent her first Anniversary in the hospital.  One of the folks that retired has had an accident and several surgeries with a lot more medical procedures to come.  Thankfully his wife retire too and is there to help him. Another friend retired on a Friday and passed on Monday.  
The good news is there is a couple getting married soon.  They are so happy and starting a new chapter in their life.  I wish them well.  
So as you can see, today has caused me to stop and think.  
Yes, I will have to have income, but you know, I think I can live without some things.  We won't have any car payments then, only house payment, utilities, groceries and clothing.  We are so very lucky with our home.  Our house payments are only 320 a month.  I just want to have time to make memories with my grandchildren.  I don't want them to wish they would have known us better.  I want to make them laugh, sing, and be silly.  I want them to enjoy life and make the best choices they can.  Have no regrets.  I want them to go to college and pick a great careerand to have a great life.

Tomorrow will be here before I know.  I really need my beauty sleep.  Goodnight my friends, more later.
Beth

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

September 9, 2014 ivy Tech Bloomington

Today was great.  Normal, routine day anod then I remembered, today was the day.  Here We Grow Again!  Today was the kickoff for our Capital Campaign.  We only need 4 million.  Are you kidding me, 4 million dollars.  How on earth would we do?  We are in Bloomington Indiana, you know, IU is just across town.

Steve and Connie Ferguson are awesome people and they believe in our mission and they wholeheartly support us.  They believe in what we do so much that they gave us the first million.  Yes, you heard me right. They gave the first million. They have so much faith in us it's unreal; they were willing to give the first million before the state of Indiana ever kicked in their funding.   

There was an additional treat today.  Cook gave us another million.  Are you kidding me?  These are business folks in our community that believe in what we do.  They are willing to put their money where their mouth is.  I know they are not alone.  

Many employees at the college give to the college (Foundation).  There are many scholarships that are funded by faculty and staff.  My hope would be that we have 100 percent of the employees giving.  Why would they not.  As the college grows, they still have a job.  As we grow as a community, additional opportunities open up for everyone.  It only makes good sense to invest in your community.  The graduates we are sending out the door are the adults that will be making the decisions for us when we get old and unable to. I sure want it to be someone who knows what they are talking about.  

I remember having surgery at Bloomington hospital.   When the nurse came in to pull the drain from the wound, she had an entire class of nursing students to watch.  I encouraged it!  I knew where they had received their instruction and even allowed one of the nursing students to pull the drain out. That is how much faith I have in the nursing department faculty. Those nursing students wouldn't have been in clinicals if they didn't have the knowledge and were not capable.

Many people have a story. I am no different. I began Ivy Tech in June 1996. I was an adult learner, a first-generation adult learner.  I had no clue what I was getting myself into.  I began Ivy Tech with a goal of getting an Associates degree in accounting. Not only did I achieve my goal, but I surpassed it by leaps and bounds.  If it hadn't been for the awesome faculty and staff, and of course the love and patience of my family, I wouldn't have never thought to continue my education.  

Enough for today.  I'll try and pick up from here next time.  

Sunday, September 7, 2014

Another day....

I want to thank everyone for following me on twitter and all of the reposts you sent.  It is greatly appreciated.  I have found a company that allows me to test new products and complete a review.  I'm a little hesitant about some of the skin products.  I don't want to wake up with half of my face gone or worse.  But I do like trying new things.  So far it's been book reviews.  Funny, it seems like the books I like I can read very quickly.  Other books are harder to get through.  Guess that can be expected.  Besides, if we all liked the same types of books, this would be a boring world.  I try to be far with my reviews.  

Have a great night!
Beth

Saturday, September 6, 2014

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Sunday, August 24, 2014

Beth E Pless: My personal experience with my 2007 jeep!

Beth E Pless: My personal experience with my 2007 jeep!: My jeep sucks.   I bought it here in.Bloomington at towne and country with the extended warranty.   First issue, drivers side lift plate, wi...

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Amazing

Our neighbors granddaughter is moving to California.  Several people when to help load the U-Haul, when something amazing happened, several youth from the church showed up and began hauling things from the basemen to the truck.  It was amazing to watch them work together as a team for people they really didn't know.  It's just amazing.

Ivy Tech New Chancellor

Read the Bloom Magazine August edition about the "Remarkable Rise of Chancellor Jennie Vaughan and the Evolution of Ivy Tech-Bloomington":
http://www.magbloom.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/12Bloom_FeatureJennieVaughan.pdf

Knowing Vera





Knowing Vera was written by Rachelle Avala.  The book is written with so much detail it is though you are right there, living the experience along side the characters.  And some of them are true characters! Vera has never fallen in love however she does have a friend "with benefits".  Avala has a style of writing that makes you feel like you are right there, with his hands touching your...you get my drift.  Murder, lies, love, and sex all in a book that you won't want to put down.   Some portions you will read twice (or more).  Avala has earned a five stars review from me. #review


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